Sunday, August 17, 2008

迷失自我

這星期發生在好友身上以及與Mag談了一論後猛然發現自己這年多兩年以來真的變了很多由其最近的大半年就直情到了迷實及逃避現實的地步。自己分析後發現是有幾個因素的而首當其衝的是自己心態上不能接受自己生理上以步入中年的事實。因而開始與些年紀比自己年輕的人走得比較埋以好樣自己心理上覺得自己還年輕繼而疏遠那些同輩或年長的朋友及拍擋。去玩些年輕人玩意唱些年輕人最流行的歌以增加心理說服力。

第二個因素是自己被這兩年較好的收入沖昏了自以為是而沉迷於那些浮誇的消費上來平衡自悲的心理以致到了玩物喪志的憬界。

就因為玩得利害及無了意志所以從年頭開始就提不起神去專注在生意上以致一次又一次的投標失誤而令到自己信心盡失意志更消沉。

就因為意志消沉就重更加玩得利害及開始每日逃避現實同埋逃避我兩個拍擋因覺得這大半年來公司的失利我要負責而無法面對他們。而結果是他們以為我在疏遠他們而實況是我亦是如此。

好在終於醒來了。。。知到問題出在那裡及遵守娘娘的定律擋自己意志消沉時就要遠離一些有負能量的人或地方及要調節心理變得更正面。

5 comments:

*Maegen.G* said...

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Kiat walkaround said...

人生最重要是在错误中反省学习。。楼主加油!

Jonathan said...

我慣了沉著應戰。。。
不同的地方,不同的問題,不同的環境,
對你,我都是一樣說一聲 “加油!“
一齊努力吧!

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Chiewata said...

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